
If you were at RS 08 you know the resounding answer to that question. “HOO-RAH!“ (It doesn’t quite sound as cool and masculine on screen as it does in person…But there’s a point to be made. And we are serious and passionate about making the point at RockSolid.)
God designed the genders. And He designed men to be men. To take responsibility and to lead. Not chauvinistic, domineering, ego-serving, self-centeredness. Not passive, weak, conflict-avoiding, lazy, mouse-like, self-centeredness. Manhood. Leadership. Servanthood. For others good and God’s glory.
John Piper defines masculinity in very helpful (& accurate) terms:
“At the heart of mature masculinity is a sense of benevolent responsibility to lead, provide for and protect women in ways appropriate to a man’s differeing relationships.”
(from “What’s the Difference? Manhood and Womanhood Defined According to the Bible” - p. 23)
Each word is carefully placed and unpacked in the helpful little book (which is a distillation of an excellent larger work, Recovering Biblical Manhood & Womanhood: A Response to Evangelical Feminism.)
This is a huge issue and a huge need in the Church today.
And a word to the Ladies - you want men to be men! (can I hear an amen?!) God’s design is not only true, but beautiful. It is most satisfying for the masculine human soul and the feminine human soul, when we discover and embrace the truth and beauty of our Creator’s design in making us equally dignified and uniquely distinct (Gen. 1:27).
It is not only good and satisfying for men, to be men, and women, to be women. But it is good for women when men are men. And it is good for men when women are women.
This issue is on unique display right now in our culture, garnering massive press and attention on the highest public venue in the world:Â US Politics.
It’s a great time to be discussing these matters and searching the Scriptures and our own beliefs. Don’t misunderstand me, my main aim in this post is not to make any political statement. It is simply to engage a (I dare say “the”) vital issue facing the Church today, certainly facing young men and young girls today. It affects every marriage, every family, everyone.
There is an identity crisis in the world, mass confusion abounds in our society, and sadly, even in our churches about the issue of biblical manhood and womanhood.
At RockSolid, we face this issue head on, and it strikes at all three of our primary aims:Â Sound Thinking, Sound Living, Sound Relationships.
In closing this post down, there is so much that could be said and should be said. We will also address biblical womanhood at more length on this blog as we move forward.
Two things:

1. We will be sharing clear and passionate teaching on this subject and it’s implications on dating/courtship and marriage at the upcoming Finding a Mate - Forging a Love Conference, here in Cashmere, WA. October 17-18.
If you haven’t registered yet, you can do so here. I strongly encourage you to come if you can and help us spread the word.
For more information, read the flyer.
2. I was prompted to write this specific post after reading an excellent, and I mean excellent, series of 3 posts (not long at all) by Owen Strachan on the Gender Blog at the Council for Biblical Manhood & Womanhood. I include them here, for your recommendation and reference: