“Let’s Sing Another Song Dad!”
Friday, August 29th, 2008
Last week I took Ella Mae to Children’s Hospital in Seattle for an appointment with her Orthopedic surgeon.
She was SO excited (because we’d pumped her up) to get her “new braces”.
Braces to fit over toes that will never wiggle, ankles that will never work, legs that will never run.
It’s still hard on this daddy’s heart.
So, for three hours in the car, this daddy and his little 3-yr. old girl sang every song in the book. He because his soul needed it, she because she’s been taught to love it. And after every song, from the back seat, came the exuberant exclamation, “Let’s sing another one dad!”
Now we’re not talking cheesy little nursery rhymes here. While there’s certainly nothing wrong with them, “I’m A Little Tea-Pot” as yet been credited with lifting the gaze and carrying a soul through the dark night.
And that’s what I want to prepare my daughter for. So we don’t sing it much.
Again, while they’re probably “harmless”, we simply haven’t had the luxury, nor has it seemed prudent in light of our daughter’s life circumstances, to fill the limited (but growing) space of her memory bank with “harmless” (i.e.”mindless”) rhymes and rhythms. We need substance.
Because very soon she will start asking hard questions about why she can’t run outside and play with her little buddies, why Levi can bound up the stairs and she can’t, why she still wears diapers when none of her friends do, why her feet are different sizes, why she can’t feel sores on her feet or anything below her waist, why she can’t jump on the bed with her brother, and on and on and on.
And pretty soon after that, the conversation will turn to God. Because, if you ask her now, “Who made Ella Mae?” she fires back without hesitation, “God did!” It won’t take long for her to put two and two together, and the next question that comes will be, “Why did God make me this way?”
If I don’t have an answer in that moment, I could shipwreck my daughter’s growing faith in God.
And in that moment, we will need to draw on something more than what “I’m a Little Tea-pot” has to offer. We can’t afford to get caught flat-footed.
Rather, we want to tap into and build on the God-centered and hope-sustaining truths and assumptions that we have already stowed in her little head and heart.
That’s why “Twinkle Twinkle Little Star” didn’t get sung in our car on the way to Children’s Hospital. But “A mighty fortress is our God, a bulwark never failing” got belted a few times. And “In Christ alone, my hope is found, He is my light my strength, my song” received more than one moving rendition.
Does she comprehend the truth of the words “This cornerstone, this solid ground, firm through the fiercest drought and storm” as she sings them at the top of her lungs? Probably not like she will in 5 years. Or in 10 years. But we aren’t going to wait that long to put these hope-sustaing and God-exalting truths in her heart. We’re putting them in now, so they’ll be there when she needs it.
So here’s the point of this little story:Â Are you preparing to be sustained through suffering with an unshakable hope in Jesus Christ?
Because that is God’s call to Christians. And if you don’t think you will suffer in your lifetime, you are simply naive.
While there are many ways to do this, one way is with music. Sing good songs, full of good theology. Songs full of Scripture. Songs full of the greatness of God. And each one will become like ballast in your ship.
Make sure your Ipod is full of God-exalting music.
These are the songs I want stamped on my daughter’s mind, the ones that her brain put’s on “play” even when she’s not thinking about it.
As I write this, Levi, who is sitting on my lap, just started singing “Oli Oli Oli, lor gah oh i eeee” (”Holy Holy Holy, Lord God Almighty”). And “It Is Well With My Soul” continues to drift from Ella’s room where she’s supposed to be taking a nap.
Good stuff.
Praise to the Lord, the Almighty the King of Creation,
josh
ps…here’s a link to a few albums that are on our family ipod and sung around the house all day (specifically, “Psalms“, “Come Weary Saints” and “Valley of Vision“) You can buy them there or on itunes. This is from the church that Josh Harris is pastoring in Maryland.